Philosophies of Faith
Embracing Mercy Over Vengeance
At Taming Trauma, we believe that as a society, we can choose between vengeance and forgiveness. Gandhi said, "An eye for an eye makes us blind," reminding us of the endless cycle of harm that vengeance perpetuates. Instead, we choose mercy, education, and healing as the path forward. The world's major religions all embrace forgiveness, and here, we highlight the values of mercy and reconciliation shared across Judaism, Christianity, and Islam.
Jewish Perspective: Forgiveness as a Sacred Duty
In Judaism, forgiveness is not just encouraged — it's a mitzvah (good deed), a sacred responsibility. Jews are taught to seek and offer forgiveness, especially during the Ten Days of Repentance, between Rosh Hashanah (the Jewish New Year) and Yom Kippur (the Day of Atonement).
- "For forgiveness, we seek atonement with God and reconciliation with others."
This period emphasizes personal reflection and restoring relationships with those we've wronged. It is a time for both asking for forgiveness and offering it.
Christianity: Loving and Forgiving Your Enemies
Christianity teaches that vengeance belongs to God (Deuteronomy 32:35, Psalm 94:1), but the message of Jesus in the New Testament transforms the understanding of forgiveness.
- "You have heard that it was said, 'Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, 'Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who persecute you." – Matthew 5:43-44
Jesus challenges us to reject hatred and offer love and forgiveness, even to our enemies. Forgiveness is seen as the path to true peace and reconciliation.
Islam: Forgiveness and Divine Mercy
In Islam, forgiveness is a core value, and the Quran urges believers to show mercy and seek reconciliation:
- "Show forgiveness, enjoy what is good, and turn away from the foolish." – Surah 7:199
- "The recompense for an evil is like an evil thereof, but whoever forgives and makes reconciliation, their reward is with Allah" – Surah 42:40
Muslims believe that forgiving others brings great spiritual reward and aligns them with divine mercy.
Why Forgiveness Matters: A Path to Healing
Forgiveness is a choice – one that leads to healing, closure, and freedom. It allows us to break free from cycles of resentment and violence, and to build a future based on empathy, understanding, and peace. By embracing mercy, we help create a world where healing is possible.